I had two and a half days to spend visiting with my family back home and it was nowhere near enough but I am thankful for what time I did have. My mom spent all 3 days in the kitchen and by the time I left her house we had enough leftovers to feed an army. It is insane how much food she prepares. We always have ham and turkey with tons of sides to choose from and this year practically all the sides and desserts were made twice, once for most of us and again without glucose for my aunt. I swear if my mother didn’t have to work she could feed all the hungry within a 50 mile radius! It was fantastic as usual and over entirely too soon. Especially since I had to head home after we ate to prepare for my Black Friday shift at work.
Which brings me to Black Friday and my question to everyone, what is the appeal? I cannot imagine fighting the crowds to shop in general much less camping out days ahead of time? Some of the sales this year didn’t even wait until Friday; Wal-Mart started at 10 pm on Thanksgiving Day. By the time I got to work at my part time retail job at 5 am Friday most of the crowds were gone. Targets’ parking lot was practically empty. Apparently by 5 am the masses had already wrapped it up and headed home to finally sleep. My shift was 5 am to 10 am and we were so slow I ended up leaving an hour early. So having those sales increasingly early every year doesn’t seem to be doing any favors to the non-big box stores or for that matter probably not so good for the local restaurants either. Maybe it is just me and my lack of enthusiasm for competitive shopping but I just don’t understand it.
The hordes of people grabbing at the same few $3 toasters, after trampling everyone around them, just doesn’t scream Holiday Spirit to me. There are already reports of violent outbreaks around the nation this Black Friday. A woman in California used pepper spray on her fellow shoppers so she could cut to the head of the line. Her bad behavior was rewarded when she was able to pay for her purchases and leave the store before the police had even arrived. I cannot even imagine. It is sad when you rank the success of your event by the lack of casualties but so far Wal-Mart is happy with the outcome because although there have been numerous shootings, tasing, and pepper spray incidents no one has yet to die. Well hallelujah! So between people being attacked inside the store over an x-box sale or in the parking lot while being robbed I think it might be in the best interest of rational people to stay home and take advantage of Cyber Monday instead!